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生活是一场测试
佚名
我最喜欢的一张海报上写着:“生活是一场测试,只是一场测试。假如懂得把现实生活当成一场测试,你早就知道自己的方向和目标了。”每当这条富有幽默感的至理名言浮现在脑海中时,它便会提醒我要严肃地对待生命。
当你把生活和生活中的许多挑战当作一场测试,或者一场接一场的测试时,你就会把碰到的每个问题当作一次成长的机会,一个更多地了解生活的机会。无论你是否被诸多的问题、责任,甚至无法克服的困难所攻击,只要把这一切当作一场测试,你总会有机会赢得胜利,也就是说你能够超越这些挑战。相反,如果你每次都把面临的新问题当作一场为了生存而必须取胜的严肃战斗,你就很可能踏上一段坎坷的旅程。只有当一切都顺利的时候,你才会拥有快乐的时光。我们每个人都应该明白,这种事情发生的几率有多小。
作为一场测试,你要看看自己是否能够把这个想法运用到你不得不应付的事情上。或许,父母给了你很大的压力,老板对你要求苛刻。看看你能否把面临的事情,从“一个问题”重新定义为“一场测试”。与其同你的问题进行抗争,倒不如看看你能从中学到什么。问问自己:“这为什么成了我生活中的问题?这意味着什么?如何才能超越它?我能否从不同的角度看待这个问题?我能否把它看成一场测试?”
如果尝试一下这种策略,你会对自己反应的变化感到惊讶。你就会变得更能实事求是地接受这一切。
生活中总会有各种挑战迎接着我们。只要我们把它看成是一场测试,举起手中沉着、冷静、智慧和学问这些武器,就没有什么困难是战胜不了的。
Life Is a Test
Anonymous
One of my favorite posters says; “Life is a test。 It is only a test。 Had this been a real life you would have been instructed where to go and what to do。” Whenever I think of this humorous bit of wisdom。 it reminds me not to take my life so seriously。
When you look at life and its many challenges as a test; or series of tests; you begin to see each issue you face as an opportunity to grow; a chance to discover more about life。 Whether you are being bombarded with problems; responsibilities; even insurmountable difficulties; when looked at as a test; you always have a chance to succeed; in the sense of rising above that which is challenging you。 If on the other hand; you see each new issue you face as a serious battle that must be won in order to survive; you are probably in for a very rocky journey。 The only time you are likely to be happy is when everything is working out just right。 And we all know how often that happens。
As an experiment; see if you can apply this idea to something you are forced to deal with。 Perhaps you have much pressure fr